Choosing Your Obstetrician: What to Look for and What to Ask

Choosing an OB/GYN is one of the most important decisions you’ll make during your pregnancy. This guide helps you understand what to look for—from credentials and hospital affiliations to overall approach—so you can find the right fit for you.

reference Dr. James A. Gohar MD, FACOG 9 min read
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TL;DR

When choosing an obstetrician, prioritize board certification, hospital affiliation, and communication style. Look for a practice that offers comprehensive, on-site services — such as diagnostics and nutritional support — to ensure a seamless care experience. Your OB/GYN should feel like a trusted partner in your health and your baby's development.

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Important

If you have a high-risk pregnancy or a pre-existing condition like uterine fibroids, ensure your obstetrician has specialized experience in managing these specific complexities.

Why is hospital affiliation so important?

Your obstetrician's hospital affiliation determines where you will give birth. It is essential to choose a doctor who delivers at a facility with high-quality neonatal care and modern labor suites.

When you choose an OB/GYN, you are also choosing a hospital. Most doctors only have 'privileges' at one or two specific hospitals. You should research the hospital's reputation for labor and delivery (L&D), its C-section rates, and the availability of a Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) in case your baby needs extra support. At Viva Eve, our team is proud to be affiliated with Mount Sinai West in Manhattan. This partnership ensures that while you receive personalized, boutique-style care in our offices, your delivery takes place in a world-class facility equipped with the latest medical technology and a highly skilled nursing staff. Knowing where you will be on the big day provides an extra layer of comfort throughout your pregnancy.

What credentials and experience should you look for?

Beyond basic medical licensure, look for board certification in obstetrics and gynecology and specialized experience in areas relevant to your specific health needs.

A board-certified OB/GYN has completed rigorous additional training and passed comprehensive exams beyond their medical degree. This certification is a benchmark of clinical excellence. You may also want to ask about the doctor's experience with specific concerns. For example, if you have uterine fibroids (leiomyomas), you would benefit from a practice like Viva Eve that offers a 'Fibroid 360' approach, integrating fibroid management directly into your obstetric care. Experience isn't just about years in practice; it's about the breadth of care provided. A practice that manages everything from routine prenatal visits to complex surgical procedures in AAAASF-accredited suites demonstrates a high level of clinical sophistication. You want a team that can handle the unexpected with confidence and skill.
Ask if you will see the same doctor at every visit or if you will rotate through a team. Many patients prefer the continuity of a smaller, dedicated team where the providers and Nurse Practitioners know your story personally.

How does 'on-site' care improve your pregnancy experience?

On-site diagnostics and integrated services like nutritional counseling save time and reduce the stress of coordinating multiple appointments across different locations.

Pregnancy involves a lot of appointments, blood work, and ultrasounds. Having these services 'in-house' is more than just a convenience; it ensures that your doctor gets your results immediately and can discuss them with you in real-time. On-site sonography and lab testing mean you won't have to travel to a separate diagnostic center for every routine screen. Comprehensive care also means looking at the whole person. We believe nutrition is a cornerstone of a healthy pregnancy, which is why we have an in-house dietitian, Tamsin Jordan, available to our patients. From managing morning sickness through diet to optimizing your energy levels, having a specialist within the same practice ensures your nutritional plan is perfectly aligned with your medical care.

What questions should you ask during your first visit?

Your first visit is an interview for both parties. Ask about their philosophy on birth plans, pain management, and how they handle after-hours emergencies.

Preparation is key to finding the right fit. We recommend bringing a list of questions to your first appointment. Good starting points include: 'What is your philosophy on natural birth vs. medical intervention?', 'How do you handle birth plans?', and 'Who will deliver my baby if you aren't on call?' You should also ask about communication: 'How do I reach the team with non-emergency questions?' and 'What is the typical wait time for a response?' A practice that values clear, emotionally honest communication will be happy to answer these questions. At Viva Eve, we pride ourselves on being accessible — whether you are visiting us in Forest Hills or Midtown East, you should feel heard and respected.

Does the office environment and location matter?

The physical environment and geographic convenience of the practice significantly impact your comfort and stress levels during the 40 weeks of pregnancy.

You will be spending a lot of time at your OB/GYN's office, especially in the third trimester when visits become weekly. A clean, modern, and welcoming environment can make these appointments something you look forward to rather than a chore. Consider the office hours and whether they offer flexibility for working parents. Location is equally vital. Having offices in both Forest Hills and Midtown East allows our patients to choose the location that best fits their daily life. Convenience reduces the friction of staying consistent with your prenatal care, ensuring that both you and your baby remain on the healthiest possible path.
Trust your intuition. After your first meeting, ask yourself: Did the doctor listen? Did they explain things in plain language? Did I feel rushed? Your obstetrician will be with you during one of life's most intense moments; you deserve to feel completely comfortable in their care.
Common Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Ideally, you should have your first prenatal visit between eight and 10 weeks of pregnancy. However, many women start looking as soon as they get a positive pregnancy test, or even during the 'preconception' phase.

OB/GYNs are medical doctors who can perform surgeries and handle high-risk complications. Midwives are trained professionals who focus on low-intervention, natural births for low-risk pregnancies. Some practices, like Viva Eve, use a team approach with doctors and NPs.

Not necessarily. It is important to confirm that the practice is 'in-network' for your specific insurance plan to avoid unexpected costs. Our team can help you navigate these details before your first visit.

You have the right to change your provider at any time if you don't feel it's a good fit. While it's easier to switch earlier in pregnancy, your records can be transferred to a new practice whenever you decide.

If you choose a practice with specialized fibroid expertise, like Viva Eve, you don't need a separate specialist. We manage your fibroids and your pregnancy as one integrated care plan.

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